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There are several
websites where children can play games online and
parents can be reasonably certain that the games are
age-appropriate and do not contain vulgar, extremely
violent or sexualized content. Here are several
such sites: Poptropica.com Funbrain.com Both were developed
by the Family Education Network. FEN has
other games on their webiste as well. Select the age of
your child from the choices at the top of the screen and
then the word "Entertainment."
Also visit: Kids.Yahoo.com SurfNetKids.com Shooting Games at
SurfNetKids.com Arcade Games at
SurfNetKids.com
Katia Somerville has created
a game site called SafeKidGames where she groups and
rates games by grade level from Kindergarten through
grade 7.
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How Safe
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A very popular
game and social site for young girls is Stardoll.com. Girls in fourth
grade through seventh grade will often tell us that they
have accounts on this site.
Though Stardoll, and
others like it, make an effort to keep their content
safe and appropriate, we have found offensive screen
names and posts on Stardoll every time we've
visited. The offensive content usually takes the
form of very sexual or sexually vulgar postings.
Fortunately they are few but parents need to be aware
that sites like these rarely police their community with
"human eyes". Typically software is employed to
look for offending words. It is easy, however, for
users to hide or mask their offensive selections by
substituting characters, such as in a user name such as
"mipu55y."
Bottom
line: Though the risks are small, there are no
guarantees for parents that their children won't come in
contact with sexually offensive material or the people
who create it on
Stardoll.com.
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Children Online offers
innovative and comprehensive workshops on Internet
safety and online education to students, parents,
faculty and administrators. Our approach,
unique in the field of Internet safety, combines a
thorough understanding of Internet technologies, child
development and counseling, to focus on the impact of
the internet on the social, emotional and language
development of young people.
Doug Fodeman and Marje
Monroe, experts in technology, counseling and education,
work together to provide invaluable research and tools
for parents and schools with practical real-life
solutions to the issues faced by young people
online. Since 1997, Marje and Doug have spoken to
thousands of students, teachers and parents.
They have several publications in the area of Internet
safety and offer a free online newsletter. More
detailed information can be found at
ChildrenOnline.org.
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Doug
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34th
Edition of the Children Online Newsletter.

First of all we
would like to welcome the 100-plus new subscribers to
our monthly newsletter! We have conducted
many parent workshops in the last few weeks at schools
in several states and we're thrilled that so many
parents have joined us. Many of our readers have also
found us on the Internet and come from countries as
close as Canada and as far as India and Australia.
We all share a wish for our children to grow up in a
safe and age-appropriate manner using the
Internet.
In this issue of our newsletter we turn
our attention to children's popular online game sites to
expose the reality that some of the games on these sites
are not suitable for children though, overall, the site
appears to be fine. We've learned about these game
sites from children and young teens at schools we've
visited during the last few years. To make it easier for
parents and educators to see the graphic examples long
after this month's newsletter becomes a pdf file, we've
written the complete web addresses below to the graphics
we've saved on our website. As always, we
welcome your comments and suggestions. Our telephone
number for Children Online is 413-214-1225.
Best
wishes, Marje
Monroe and Doug Fodeman
Contact Marje or Doug via
email at marjem@childrenonline.org or
dougf@childrenonline.org for information about our
programs or consulting services.
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When is a Kid's Game Site Not
for Kids?
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One of the primary reasons that kids flock to the
Internet, especially children under fourteen, is to play
games. The two most popular game sites that kids
talk about wherever we go is Miniclip and AddictingGames. However, kids visit
a wide range of game sites such as Rebubbled, ArmorGames, MaxGames, Y8, ActionFlash and XGenStudios. AddictingGames is
owned by a familiar name, Nickelodeon, the same company that
created Sponge Bob and the Penguins of Madagascar.
If you visit any of these game sites you get the
impression that they are designed to appeal to tween-age
children, ages ten to thirteen. But children as
young as six and seven visit these popular game
sites. While the great majority of games on these
sites are harmless, parents are often unaware that some
games found on these sites are for mature audiences and
very inappropriate for children because of their sexual,
violent or vulgar content. Also, many games
reinforce negative stereotypes and routinely sexualize
girls. In addition, just like the idea of "six
degrees of separation", some children's game sites are
just two or three clicks away from content and websites
designed for adults. Two popular games that have
appeared on several of the above games sites, including
Addicting Games, are "Don't Whack Your Boss" and "Whack
Your Ex." Both were created by Doodie.com. (As in
feces.) A link is provided from the games to
Doodie.com where the visitor will find ads for online
casinos, sex surveys, and an ad to a very risky and
inappropriate site called Chat Roulette. [It has
recently been reported that about 20% of the random
video chats that appear through Chat Roulette connect
visitors to men who are exposing their genitals. Since
Chat Roulette appeared last November, there are now at
least three copycat websites.] Cartoon
violence has been around for as long as there have been
cartoons. However, we all know that the graphic
display of violence covers a wide range of content and,
at one end of the spectrum, can be extreme and gorey.
Also some violent graphic media can be offensive because
it is perpetrated against women and with sexual
qualities. Here are a few examples of these points
from "Don't What Your Boss" and a game called "Spank the
Booty", found on Rebubbled, where the object of the game
is to spank a woman's bare bottom as hard as possible.
www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/Rebubbled-Spank.jpg www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/spank1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/Spank2.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/DontWhackBoss1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/DontWhackBoss2.gif
Nickelodeon,
the owner of Addicting Games, has been castigated for
offering games such as "Perry the Perv" where the object
of the game is to catch women undressing without getting
caught. The prize for winning is to jump into bed with a
woman (off screen), while her panties fly off and the
bed makes a violent rocking motion as hearts rise.
Addicting Games also offers a game called "Candy the
Naughty Cheerleader." The object of the game is to drive
away all your classmates so that you can have private
time alone with Candy because she "looks so hot." Both
games sexually objectify women. www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/PerryPerv1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/PerryPerv2.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/PerryPerv3.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/PerryPerv4.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/PerryPerv5.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/cheerleader1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/cheerleader2.jpg
Other
similar games that parents may find offensive are
"Paparazzi" where the object of the game is to catch the
"wardrobe malfunctions" [www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/CatchWardrobeMalfunctions.gif]
or the casino and poker games, including games rated for
teens, mature and adults only audiences at Action Flash
such as "PedoPriest" and the "Orgasm Simulator." Please
be forewarned that "Orgasm Simulator" is pornographic
and found on Action Flash. www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/os1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/os2.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/priest.gif
The
Campaign for a Commercial-Free
Childhood has been trying to advocate on behalf of
children for the removal of this type of content.
Sadly, our voices are a whisper compared to the
cacophony of sound from the multi-billion dollar media
industry. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't try.
For example, we recently contacted both the webmaster at
Rebubbled and the Attorney General in Colorado (where
the server resides that hosts Rebubbled) to have the
content removed. Representatives of our government
need to be informed as well. The louder our
collective voices are, the greater the chance that we
can make a difference.
Some games aren't cartoons
at all but actually flash animation of real people, such
as Sweet Tickle Girl. Players of Sweet Tickle Girl
find themselves looking down upon a young woman lying in
bed wearing a skimpy set of pajamas. The player's mouse
becomes a feather and the game is to tickle the young
woman. Her response is to pull up or down her
pajamas suggesting that she might reveal much more of
herself. [www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/tickle.jpg]
Other
games, besides employing violence in their game play,
are extremely vulgar. This typically takes the form of
characters urinating or defecating on others such as
these examples from Hobo Prison Brawl (found on
ArmorGrames and Y8.com) and Whack Your Ex, which is
found on many game sites like Rebubbled. www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/WhackYourEx1.gif www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/WhackYourEx2.gif
www.childrenonline.org/newsletters/images/hobo.gif
The
message here is simple. Parents shouldn't assume
that all of the content on a kid's game site is for
kids. Nor should they assume that the content is
consistent with their family values or free of negative
stereotypes or media messages. The Internet is a
"moving target" with websites and their content changing
constantly. This makes it even harder for parents
to keep a watchful eye on what their children are
doing. Also, most parents understand that if, for
example, a fifth grade boy is presented with a set of
games ranging from "E" for Everyone to "M" for Mature,
that fifth grader's natural curiosity is likely to lead
him to select the "M" game.
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INTERNET
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Safe Practices for
Life Online
Children Online has a
curriculum on Internet Safety that includes nearly 100
student exercises and lots of information on many topics
including social networks, instant messaging,
cyberbullying, online marketing, scams directed at kids,
protecting privacy online, avoiding identity theft and
impersonation, creating strong passwords and
more.
There is also a student
edition which includes cartoons and "Did you know"
sections of interesting facts for students.
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